you're not the only one falling apart

it's okay to ask for help.

i know everyone says it but read it like you mean it.

it is okay to ask for help. 

now take a deep breath and let your body feel it.

it is safe for me to ask for help.

consider the possibility that life does not feel like more than you can handle because you are being tested on how strong and independent you are. maybe you are being shown how loved, supported and nurtured you are by those around you that would be happy to help you.

true luxury is about being completely unavailable to chaos. this does not mean working so hard in an attempt to gain control of all of existence so that you never have to rely on anyone ever again for as long as you live. this does mean being open to creating solutions that will balance the dynamic of your relationships AND being willing to set proper boundaries.

you are not meant to be convenient. you are meant to be authentic. 

if you haven't been clear about what you need, open your heart and share it with a loved one. ask yourself this: if i promised myself that from this day forward the people that offer me the most peace + harmony would receive the most time + access to me, what would i have to change to keep that promise?

♥ inspired by Scorpio Full Moons + friends in need ♥